Father-Daughter Bonding Activities Focus on Building Relationships Through Creative Crafts and Hands-On Activities.
On a recent Saturday morning, Hailey Robinson, along with nine dedicated volunteers, orchestrated the “Twist and Ties” father-daughter natural hair workshop at the Pan-African Connection bookstore in Dallas. The event aimed to empower fathers with the skills to style their daughters’ natural hair, an initiative that resonates deeply within the African American community.
Participants were welcomed into a vibrant environment, characterized by tables adorned with pink sparkly beauty bags filled with essential hair care products such as styling foam, refreshing sprays, leave-in detanglers, hair clips, and preparatory guides. These kits served a dual purpose: to equip fathers with the tools they need to style their daughters’ hair and to foster a stronger bond between fathers and daughters.
Among the early attendees was Cory Carlson, joined by his 9-year-old daughter, Delaney. Despite her initial shyness, Delaney eagerly participated after selecting a reversible satin bonnet and a snack. Carlson, who identified as a “girl dad,” admitted he had limited knowledge about styling natural hair but was eager to learn the necessary techniques for his adopted daughter. He expressed a deep commitment to embracing her ethnic identity by ensuring she could celebrate her natural hair.
Robinson, a licensed cosmetologist and author of the children’s book “Malashia’s Magical Twists,” initiated the workshop with light exercises to prepare the fathers for hands-on styling. She reassured participants that they were in a judgment-free zone, emphasizing that by the end of the session, they would be proficient in at least one of four core hairstyles: two-strand twists, individual braids, flat twists, or cornrows.
The workshop’s innovative approach included mnemonic devices to help participants remember the styling techniques, fostering a relaxed and encouraging atmosphere. Robinson noted that this initiative was particularly important as many discussions about hair care often overlook the involvement of fathers, typically leaving such responsibilities to mothers. She underscored the need for fathers to be included in the conversation surrounding hair and beauty, asserting that they are present and essential in their children’s lives.
Robinson’s collaboration with the co-owners of the Pan-African Connection bookstore was pivotal in bringing this workshop to fruition. Following a successful social media campaign that garnered over 35,000 views in just one day, the event quickly reached capacity, attracting 14 father-daughter pairs and prompting 75 additional families to join the waiting list. Robinson noted that the support from the community was crucial in making this workshop a reality.
As fathers navigated the intricacies of hair styling, the atmosphere shifted from nervousness to camaraderie. Participants shared laughter and encouragement, often surprising themselves with their newfound skills. For many of the fathers, including Tristen Bolden, a barber looking to refine his hair-styling techniques, this workshop served as a valuable opportunity to learn and engage with their daughters in a meaningful way.
As the event concluded, each participant left equipped not only with new hair products and styling tools but also with newfound confidence and skills. Robinson expressed gratitude to all who attended, highlighting the significant commitment the fathers made to enhance their relationships with their daughters. The success of the “Twist and Ties” workshop underscores the importance of community involvement in supportive and educational initiatives that celebrate cultural identity and strengthen familial bonds.
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