Kathryn Grody, age 78, embraces aging gracefully in her new project, “The Unexpected 3rd.”
Kathryn Grody’s latest one-woman show, The Unexpected 3rd, currently playing at People’s Light Theatre, encapsulates the tension between hope and reality that many face in their later years. Through comedic storytelling and heartfelt anecdotes, Grody navigates the unanticipated aspects of aging, drawing audiences into her world of youthful rebellion, midlife challenges, and the nuanced experiences that come with age.
At 78 years old, Grody demonstrates remarkable physical comedy. She engages the audience with moments of dance and whimsical gestures, offering glimpses into her daily life, such as the humorous struggle of getting up after a playful session with her grandson. This portrayal not only entertains but also invites reflections on the physical realities of aging, showcasing her resilience and ability to find levity in everyday struggles.
The structure of the play, which defies conventional formats, complements Grody’s narrative style. Nina Ball’s innovative set design mirrors her thought processes, displaying a distressed upstage wall adorned with phrases like “What Not to Keep?” and “Who’s in Charge of Time?”. These elements collectively create a whimsical yet poignant backdrop for her reflections. Cat Starmer’s lighting design further illuminates Grody’s emotional landscape, shifting to enhance the storytelling experience.
Throughout the show, Grody touches on universal themes of loss and remembrance, imparting wisdom gleaned from her life experiences. She encourages her audience to cherish memories of loved ones, such as the playful reminders from her deceased mother, emphasizing the importance of carrying forward the joy they shared.
While the performance is not overtly political, Grody subtly addresses the myriad challenges of contemporary aging. She articulates concerns about societal changes, from childhood exposure to technology to the grim realities of violence. Her observations expose an underlying anxiety about the future, yet she enriches the narrative with humor and poignant reflections on the human condition.
Grody reflects candidly on her career and personal life, discussing the shadows cast by her husband, Tony Award-winner Mandy Patinkin. This exploration of their marriage highlights both triumphs and tribulations, presenting a relatable narrative for many.
Ultimately, Grody’s message is one of joy and resilience. She invites audiences to embrace not merely the idea of aging, but the opportunities for growth and connection it brings. The show concludes with a profound sentiment, expressing the importance of recognizing our existence and significance, akin to a prehistoric handprint declaring, “I was here. I mattered.”
The Unexpected 3rd is more than a play; it is a celebration of life, humor, and the art of aging gracefully. Grody’s masterful storytelling serves as a reminder that as life progresses, laughter and reflection remain essential companions on the journey. The performance runs through October 26 at 39 Conestoga Rd., Malvern. For more information, visit the People’s Light Theatre website.
